Homeschool Planning Chaos - Embracing Flexibility and Fun with AuDHD and ADHD Kids

The excitement of a new homeschool year often comes with a mix of anxiety and joy, especially when supporting children with AuDHD (Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD) and ADHD. The planning process can feel like a maze, and methods that worked last year might not suit this year's needs. As we prepare for another round of homeschooling, flexibility becomes our secret weapon.

Instead of using a pen to map out our schedule, I rely on a pencil. Why? A strict timetable rarely fits the lively and spontaneous nature of our kids. I prefer listing weekly goals, allowing us to adapt and thrive as life unfolds.

In this post, I’ll share actionable strategies that have shaped our homeschooling experience, making it engaging and fun for my AuDHD and ADHD children. Happy homeschool planning!

Homeschool Planning Tip - Year-Round Schooling: The Key to Flexibility

One effective tactic I've adopted is year-round schooling. Instead of the standard September-to-June schedule, we spread learning throughout the year. This approach allows us to focus on two subjects for 2-3 hours on Mondays and Wednesdays, then switch to two different subjects on Tuesdays and Thursdays.

By breaking our week into manageable segments, stress significantly decreases. It gives us ample time to explore subjects that are more challenging for my kids. Year-round schooling also allows tasks to be completed at their own pace, easing the pressure of deadlines.

Moreover, I mix things up with thematic units and field trips to prevent monotony. For example, Fridays have become our designated game days. We dive into activities like Bananagrams, art projects, or fun baking lessons, balancing academic rigor with recreational fun. This blend of learning and play provides us with well-earned downtime.

Taking our pollinator lesson on the road, and a break from the house.

Homeschool Planning Tip 2- Real-Life Applications and Manipulatives: Making Learning Tangible

Implementing practical applications has been essential in our homeschooling; using manipulatives for math has turned out to be a game changer. After attending the FPEA convention in Orlando, where I discovered diverse curricula, I decided to focus on hands-on learning experiences.

Math, often a subject my kids find challenging, received an overhaul. We experimented with several programs, including Masterbooks and Math-U-See, before ultimately landing on Singapore Math. Its spiral learning method reinforces previously learned concepts while introducing new skills step by step.

My daughter engages with math manipulatives, enhancing their understanding of Singapore Math through enjoyable, colorful tools and interactive resources.

For example, my AuDHD son has thrived with this approach. Gaining confidence from independent work without needing constant supervision has motivated him to embrace new concepts enthusiastically. He’s even become excited about tackling math problems, resulting in a more engaged learning experience overall.

Colorful manipulatives used for engaging and interactive homeschooling. I made these alphabet tracing cards for my 2 year old, and use kinetic sand to incorporate sensory into his learning.

Homeschool Planning Tip 3- Monitoring Progress with IXL: Tailoring Curriculum to Individual Needs

To stay on top of my children's learning progress, I use IXL for biannual testing. This software not only shows where my kids excel but also pinpoints areas needing attention. This significantly improved my stress. and over-thinking about if we were making progress and if the curriculum we chose was the best one for us.

For example, I learned that my AuDHD son reads at a 7th-grade level but struggles with grammar at a 2nd-grade level. This stark difference reveals the uneven pace at which children can develop skills, often influenced by their interests—like gaming and texting.

This insight from IXL helps me find curricula that address these specific gaps. It personalizes our approach, ensuring we focus on improving skills in grammar and writing while celebrating his reading accomplishments.

Homeschool Planning Tip 3- Embracing a Fluid Routine

In crafting our weekly agenda, a crucial aspect is embracing a fluid routine. Our goals can remain constant, yet the paths we take to reach them can twist and turn. Families with AuDHD and ADHD children often thrive when structure blends with spontaneity.

If reading doesn't happen one day, that's perfectly fine. Instead, if a science experiment sparks their interest, we pivot to explore that topic fully. Adapting lessons to match emotional and energy levels leads to richer learning experiences.

Homeschool Planning Tip 4 - Incorporating Movement Breaks

Another valuable practice I've discovered is incorporating movement breaks. My children often need to burn off energy. We usually take breaks for stretching, jumping jacks, or even a quick dance-off. It’s both a fun way to engage with them and a great stress reliever for me!

Homeschool Planning Tip 5 - Keep Resources Handy

Having a variety of resources easily accessible can be crucial. We maintain a well-stocked arts and crafts corner filled with supplies—paints, markers, building blocks, and instruments.

This assortment allows us to shift gears when a subject feels overwhelming. On low-focus days, we often turn to art or music, using creativity as a refreshing break and motivator.

This is especially helpful when I am working with any of my kiddos one-on-one. I keep a pre-planned or approved box filled with things that are typically not out and easily accessible for play. This may be kinetic sand, paint, play-doh, legos, or whatever they are into at the moment. The kids are more eager to play with the items, and I am mentally prepared for the noise and mess that I know is coming from it. This way the kids are happily engaged and not disrupting whomever I am helping, and I am not worries that the house is burning down when the other two are suspiciously quiet.

Colorful arts and crafts supplies ready for creative projects.

Seek Support From Community

In the dynamic world of homeschooling, community can be a lifesaver. Connecting with other homeschooling families can uplift and inspire. We often swap resources, share stories, and even organize joint learning sessions for our kids.

Building a supportive network can alleviate feelings of isolation and provide collaborative learning opportunities. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support—whether through local groups or online forums. Other parents often have valuable insights and strategies to share. At Busy Bee Homeschool hive, we are laid back, supportive, and realistic. Looking for a group to let your children be feral without side-eyes or judgement? Looking for moms that are willing to help and keep up with your kiddos as much as their own? Come to our meet-ups and field trips.

Prioritizing Self-Care

Finally, caring for yourself as a homeschooling parent is crucial in maintaining a positive environment. Just as you prioritize your children's education, make time for self-care.

Whether it’s enjoying a quiet moment to read, meditating, or having a game night with your partner after the kids are in bed, every moment counts. When you recharge your spirit, you can be present and supportive for your children.

Wrap-Up

My daughter focusing a microscope during our biology lesson.

Planning for another homeschool year means embracing flexibility—especially when learning alongside AuDHD and ADHD kids. By setting achievable goals, allowing for movement, utilizing hands-on resources, and fostering community, you can reduce stress while creating a stimulating learning atmosphere.

Every day offers new opportunities to learn, share laughter, and grow together. You’re ready to embark on a rewarding homeschooling adventure. So grab that pencil, set your intentions, and enjoy the journey ahead. Happy homeschooling!